Race
I was listening to a podcast from Real Time With Bill Maher this morning. One of the featured guests was Tavis Smiley who wrote the New York Times best selling book, The Covenant With Black America. They were discussing some statistics showing that six out of ten black men who drop out of high school end up in jail. I don't know what the stats are for any other race, and my point really isn't to discuss this statistic. It's one of many numbers that exemplifies the inequalities in America.
What I do want to discuss is a point that Bill Maher brought up and the reaction to the interview with Smiley. Maher said, in a very similar way that I did in a college term paper, that a reason for alarming statistics like this one is that young black kids are only shown rappers and basketball players as role-models. These professions are made to seem attainable to kids, but we should really be telling them that they won't be NBA stars or a famous rappers. Smiley added that the reason these kids think they can attain these goals is that they don't see any other options in the media. He went on to say, "If we want to lead these kids, we gotta love them. If we want to save them, we gotta serve them." Wise words from a positive leader that is getting little to no major press coverage for his best selling book. Why? Because white America doesn't want to hear about it. As Smiley said, let's tell the American public that people are buying my book everyday and trying to find a plan and solution to make their communities better instead of just talking about the "crisis and pathology of black America."
After the interview with Smiley ended, Jason Alexander--George from Sienfeld--commented that "it's an unfortunate thing that his last name is Smiley. He's just not smiling a lot." This is where I have a problem. Whenever a black man in the media stands up for his beliefs, he is looked at as just another angry black person. I'm not saying that Alexander wanted to intentionally discredit Smiley with his comment. I'm sure he didn't. He was just looking for a cheap laugh at Smiley's expense. By making that joke, though, Alexander really is discrediting Smiley in the eyes of many people because he unintentionally labels him as just another angry black man. He doesn't smile. This illegitamizes (is that a word) Smiley's arguments and perpetuates stereotypes that keep race relations what they are in America, SHIT.
Some may say that it's just a harmless joke that no one will even pay attention, but that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm part of white America, and I've heard comments like this all the time behind closed doors and in public. We are just as quick to label the educated black man standing up for his beliefs as an angry black man as we are to label the athlete with his hat pulled to the side as a thug. Either way, we're discrediting the legitimacy of their message, profession, and struggle. "Pulling the race card" is a popular, negative phrase we use when a black person brings up race and we don't want to hear about it. We don't like to hear the truth and cannot deal with the guilt. Even as hip-hop has taken over suburban America, acting "black" still carries a stigma. Unless a black person acts in a way that we consider "white," they are not as easily, and often not, accepted into white America. We love watching the crazy, negative antics of black men and will saturate our media with those images, but this is similar to a minstrel show; we'll welcome it as entertainment but would never welcome it in our homes and communities.
A man like Smiley cannot get the attention of Oprah, The Today Show, and other major television shows because he is actually challenging the images and ideas that make us so much money in the media. Even when he is given a spot on cable, someone like George Costanza has to discredit his message by labeling him as the angry black man that never smiles. I'm not claiming to know what it's like to be black in America. I don't. But if I was black in America, I don't think I'd be smiling that much either.
2 Comments:
As a black American woman it makes me bristle when someone dares to say that someone is "playing the race card.” Granted, I won't deny that there are people who could calm down and not make everything into a race issue. I'm one of the first to tell them that no, that incident wasn't about race it was something else if that's what the facts indicate.
However, the fact is that race does still matter. Like you, I live in South Korea. I don't know how many times a Korean is surprised that I have a degree from a prestigious university, that I have a fairly coveted (and big money making) graduate degree or that I'm still pursuing my education rather than cashing in for big bucks. I actually had a Korean man I met a few times introduce me to his wife and during the conversation say "she doesn't look smart, but she is." I know that he wasn't speaking from a personal perspective but was more commenting on the fact that black people aren't presumed to be very smart. There are always a lot of “wows” and what-not when I explain my background, what brought me here and what I'm up to now. I don’t think a white woman would get the same reaction (but maybe I’m wrong).
I have to admit, I was very sheltered from closed minded people because I grew up in a big city and my parents encouraged me to get out and socialize with different types of people. I did see diversity and grew up with all sorts of friends. Living in Korea has exposed me to a broader range of people. When I say that, I'm talking about Westerners. I just didn't interact with people from small town wherever (unless they moved to the big bad city).
Now I'm not saying that all people from small towns are backwards. Hell, there are people in the big city who'd give some rednecks a run for their money. My point is being here I've dealt with people I'd otherwise would not as, in general, San Francisco is very progressive.
My ultimate point is that I've discovered that there are times where "playing the race card" is a valid thing to do. There are incidents of racism even today and people should and must speak up about it. I’ve also noticed that a lot of people “play the race card”and usually only when it’s a black person does it end up being a negative thing.
In Korea the race card is played all of the time and never has it been in my favor. I was in a bar once minding my own business, reading a book and enjoying a beer when this white guy asked me if I was here with the US military. I sneered and said I wasn't (that sneer isn't a put down of the US military but a put down of the assumption that any black person in Korea is automatically a GI). Then he said that I wasn't THAT stupid to be in the military (which, by extension, meant that he initially assumed I was one of these “stupid” people) and then went on to the next assumption and asked if I was a teacher. To which, again, I said I wasn't.
It's just frustrating to be here because when I see whites I don't automatically assume they're in the military or teachers. Yes, the majority of foreigners here are probably doing one or the other, but, especially in Seoul, there is a lot more going on. I know that they can be doing a range of things here from being in the US military, being an English teacher of some sort, being a student, being here as a spouse, being here on a diplomatic mission or being here in a business capacity. However, as a black woman I've never had anyone assume I was anything other than a solider or a hagwon instructor. I've never done either while living here.
So people play the race card all of the time and when it's played it never seems to be played in my favor.
damn, brick. thanks for this post. makes me feel like there are a few of you guys out there who actually fkn listen.
-an "angry" black man in colombia
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